INTRODUCTION : EXPLORING THE HOMELAND

Father & Grandson

This morning, somewhere that called home. After undergoing routine activities, delivering children to school. With a cup of hot instant coffee, accompanied by the progressive metal music composition of the Myrath band be entitled "Believer", and suction from a filter cigarette with a brand that never appeared on television. I thought for a moment, "Hmmm ... it turns out the world doesn't end, life is still going as usual, thank God for the gift of life". What can I do today?

Can you imagine the situation above. It turns out that the life and routine of the house is not as bad as imagined. With the changing form of dynamics life,than life has entered an era that might be even better. And this is what happens, when you are used to doing a work routine, become a routine of household life. And with this situation, actually you can still do what you need and want to do. And I think you might not be able to do leisure activities like the one above if you are an office worker or a parliamentary employee. Of course there will always be advantages and disadvantages think for any action we were do. Indeed, in a job in the real world, there is a value and benefit commonly referred to as results and has a measurable value of material. However, is it true that household activities do not have a value and benefit? An action that requires a compromise and judgment that indirectly interacts with the people around us. Especially from your children and wife, in other words with your's family.

The time has come, that you are becoming a father who takes care of housekeeping for your family. And made haste to live and enjoy. Do what you can do, do what you like and find something new that you can do. These 3 things will certainly provide useful repertoire, especially for your new activities as a Homeworkers father. And I emphasize again, that this task is very important, especially for the life and continuity of your family.

On this rubric, I want to share my various activities as a homeworkers father. Yups, most are just a nonsense, but I don't think it would hurt if I share them with you. There are many things that you can explore from just being narrow and complicated of your home. And those things can be useful things that can fill your days to be better.

Along with this paper, I introduce a simple section that has entitled a "Exploring the homeland". Where this rubric contains various activities that can be done at home, which is include several things, that namely:

1. The activities that I like that I will do,
2. What I can and should to do,
3. And a new things that I will do.

I also emphasize earlier, that there is no invitation to do business or any similar think on this rubric. This rubric is also not a marketing promotion or advertising or MLM. And if you are looking for a business or business opportunity, maybe you will never find it on this rubric. The main thing in this rubric is sharing. Yups, share what we can to know and do, especially if we become a homeworker's father.

The Innocent Child

hopefully with this, our routine as a homeworkers father will be better and more beneficial, it can also save the world from an alien attacks that disturb the human mind. Ha ha ha ha...

Nice to share with you, from: Homeworkers Father.

FATHER WITH ZERO DOLLAR INCOME IS NOTHING, BUT THIS IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD

No Money Man

I think you’ll be understand about the meaning of the quote which is to be a title of this article. Yups, a father or husband of a family, children and wife will be like a loser if he has a zero dollar income, or in other words no income. Such conditions still occur, especially on the countries areas that have strong and deep-rooted cultural traditions. Okay, now that's happening to me. and I wouldn't wish or justify the cultural tradition is wrong, No. indeed I dare to say that's the culture tradition is a good, great and proper thing. Because to be a man must have some more responsibility for his family survival. And this provision should be an absolute think.

That I want to say here is what if we face a situation like that. Certainly, this situation will be very frightening for hard workers, or workaholics which exists out there. And each person will have a different behavior and comprehension, depending on the character and experience of each individual. I am sure, because I'm currently experiencing it. It may look very confrontational and exaggerated, seeing from my career track record that it can be said that I am not the best person in a field of work, even I am a person who is get a less courageous in accepting challenges in facing competition for succeed in achieving a career. There are many personality problems that exist within me, which in the end causes me to end up here. But that's not what I'm concerned about right now. As I said before, the most important thing is what if I get a situation like the one above, that is a situation that makes me feel unsure of myself, feels useless, becomes a loser, and I thought that I wasn't ready to get no respect and affection from my wife who had a better career, or a situations where the children appear to have no respect because their father is a person who does not have an income and never gives some pocket money for them. Let's imagine, and of course I don't need to imagine it because I have been through.

And after all that happened, suddenly the sky went dark. The birds seem to stop singing. And the time is running slowly. Very gripping, a fear that had been buried, suddenly appeared. and...

OK, this is not a story of an alien attacks that want to give an end for humanity, NOT. Also not the appearance of other dimensional things who want to enslave a mankind, of course NOT. I must be aware that this is not the end of the world. and what should we do?

As a Muslim, when someone's heart has starts to shake, the mind becomes frantic, and the will becomes endless and stress, my religion preach for repent immediately. Yup, repentance is a form of introspection. and this is will be form into a better achievement of identity, in order to find all the shortcoming of all the actions that have been carried out in the past. I began to work even harder for worship, in accordance with the guidance of my religion. I was pensive, I am sure God will think, that I am only returning to plead with Him, only when I am experiencing a difficult time. But I know, God is the most forgiveness, and God is the most merciful and grace giver. Everything that happened at the will of God. and this confidence must begin to be rebuilt. With the confidence there will be a hope. and from hope there will be a way of light. And this is the main and first road that I have to do. And I know God will be understand and show His power.

Father And Grandson

Furthermore, the attitude that must be instilled is to be a patient. In my religion there is a demand for fasting, which is to refrain from all forms of lust that exist in humans. And this must be done, especially in the form of the meaning, which one is that the time will become when everything will go according to the rules. The wheel must spin, and so does the wheel of life. And one of the actions for through it is to be a patient. Immediately may hold all the schedules of desire, as much as possible avoid all conflicts that occur within the family members. Avoid jealousy, envy, selfishness and anger. Let be an anger hidden in the deep inside of the heart. Stay away from suspicion and build a sense of trust with your wife. Be a forgiving man, a loving man, a loving and caring person. Let the time run only for the family. And always think positively and give good thoughts. I am sure, if the time comes, life will take the sides.

If all this self-control has become a part of yourself, start thinking creatively, what should be done, and how to do it. I think these two things are enough to describe all the things that can be done when become a homeworkers father. And if there are other things, of course it is fortune and integrity, or it can be called a bonus from the almighty. The main thing that you must understand in this situation is, be a professional. You are a homeworkers father (I call the homeworkers father, because I cannot find the exact equivalent of the same word as a Housewife), so be a good homeworkers father who perform their duties according to their functions and roles. Like a figure of speech, if you are tossed around in the middle of a sea of ​​uncertain direction, the best way to survive is follow where the ocean currents go. Dive into this situation to be a part of everyday life, and soon you will find the best part you might have been searching for.

Family Man

Hopefully the opening article on this blog can be provide enlightenment for those who read it, especially for me as a father who does his activities at home. And now, I really enjoy it.

From me a homeworkers father.